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Frequently Asked Questions
What should I write in a condolence letter?
The purpose of the condolence letter is to express your deepest sympathy to the family of the deceased. If you wish to share a specific memory, it is appropriate to do so, however, it is just as appropriate to keep the message sympathetic in nature.
Can you send flowers if there is no funeral service, for example a memorial service?
You can still extend your sympathy by sending flower arrangements or plants to the memorial.
What do I do if the family says, in lieu of flowers?
First off, it means that instead of flowers, the family wishes you to contribute to another cause related to the deceased. This information will be left in the obituary, or you may check with the funeral home, and it is also appropriate to send flowers to the home of the bereaved.
Is it appropriate to send a food or fruit basket to the funeral home?
Always check with the funeral home first before sending a food or fruit basket. It may be in your best interest to send the sympathy gift directly to the home of the bereaved.
What should I do if there is a cremation?
Cremations are fast becoming an alternative to burials and are usually after funerals. Many cremations have a funeral service in the chapel or church and flowers are appropriate. To express your sympathy, flower arrangements, sprays, and vase arrangements are welcome at cremation services.
Is there a time limit on sending an expression of sympathy?
It is always a good idea to express sympathy in the loss of a friend or loved one. There are many ways of expressing sympathy including a card message, sending plants or flowers to the home of the bereaved, or doing many things in their honor. Acknowledging the loss is always the best idea.
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